Did it ruin the friendship or were you able to reconcile a potentially hostile situation?
CrazyHatLady
35 Posts
17 years, 8 months ago
Depends on the situation really, I've had two friends that have betrayed me, one I don't speak to anymore the other we're still really good friends.
I have a friend from grade school that I have seen at times around town. I've tried to call her whenever I can, but 99% of the time, she doesn't answer the phone. I even tried sending her a Christmas card last December and a letter, but I never heard back from her. My dad says that this might be sign that she doesn't want to be my friend anymore, but I want to know the truth.
Betrayal is lame.
I unfortunately lost a lot of friends because I was, for lack of a better term, stupid. I did, jhowever, hang on to the friends I thought were the most unlikely to stick around, and it turns out that they're the best friends I could possibly ask for.
It's odd how things like that end up...
I unfortunately lost a lot of friends because I was, for lack of a better term, stupid. I did, jhowever, hang on to the friends I thought were the most unlikely to stick around, and it turns out that they're the best friends I could possibly ask for.
It's odd how things like that end up...
i've never betrayed a friend but. i have been by others, when your stabed in the back by someone you thought you can trust it almost always kills the friendship
No.
I try to be the best friend I can be to each of my friends, and that doesn't include "betraying" them--whether it's telling a personal secret of theirs, harassing them, whatever--you don't treat your friends that way.
I try to be the best friend I can be to each of my friends, and that doesn't include "betraying" them--whether it's telling a personal secret of theirs, harassing them, whatever--you don't treat your friends that way.
MattNash
4135 Posts
17 years, 8 months ago
Well, once I had sex with my friend's girlfriend, does that count as betrayal :?
No, never.
I never have but this now former friend of mine betrayed me just recently by giving out my bro's number to some crack head. Anyways, he was the only friend who knew what phone number I could be reached at and I know he was in on the series of crank calls that went on for about a week at 3:30 am in the mornings. I even heard his voice on one of the calls as the second person. Anyways, I bitched him out about it and he denied the whole thing yet the calls mysteriously quit after I did it.
Long story short, I think the guy can go to Hell and I never want to hear from him ever again.
Long story short, I think the guy can go to Hell and I never want to hear from him ever again.
(Hordak Alpha))
MattNash
Well, once I had sex with my friend's girlfriend, does that count as betrayal :?
hah, I say yes. but if she came on to you, some might consider that fair game.
hey, are you just being funny mister? true story?
MattNash
4135 Posts
17 years, 8 months ago
kayvee
hah, I say yes. but if she came on to you, some might consider that fair game.
hey, are you just being funny mister? true story?
Oh yeah, all true. It happened about eight years ago. I was chilling out in my studio apartment, I heard a knock on my door, I answered it, and it was my friend's girlfriend. She brought some beer and some valiums and the rest is history. I didn't even know she liked me. I heard she did the same thing to another one of his friends, that girl was a floosy. She sure was smokin' hot though.
He finally wisened up and broke up with her. As for us, well, he was actually more hurt that I didn't tell him about it.
knockin' at the door showing up with some beer and some valiums...how 'bout that.
Was she a 'Big' girl, Matt?
Was she a 'Big' girl, Matt?
System
79987 Posts
17 years, 7 months ago
i know this may sound retarded, but it's true. i made a friend once who seemed to be on a.d.d. (which i discovered later on in the year), and one day he asked me who my favorite video game character was. since i only had a genesis at the time, i said sonic. this really pissed him off. he liked mario and had never once liked sonic, so then he just ignored me for the rest of my elementary school years just because i like a game character
if they betray you, are they still your friend? I have been betrayed, but I dont consider them to be my friends.
in jr. high one of my best friends started dating the guy i had a major crush on. it kinda sucked. some how we were able to rekindle the friendship and she is still one of my best friends. i don't think i could ever do that to someone though, i'm a strong believer in the Girl Code. i still a little weary telling people about the guys i like though, i guess you never really get over that.
My best friend and I had a huge fight over something stupid in Jr High. She went to my birthday party and when her birthday came around, my mom didn't let me go to her birthday party because I had to be somewhere else. So my best friend didn't speak to me for almost an entire day and she began avoiding me until she understood my situation. I really wanted to go to her party and finally convinced my mom to let me go.
Heres the one where I really betrayed her. A few years ago before this guy and I started going out, he invited us to a party. Later on, past midnight, my best friend had to go home and I sent her in a cab which cost a fortune by herself while I stayed with the guy I liked until 6:30 in the morning. She was pissed off because she was arguing with the cab driver and spent a fortune and her mom thought I came with her. It was a stupid thing to do...stupid and selfish. She didn't like what I did and I apologized profusely and I am so lucky she didn't hold a grudge against me :)
Heres the one where I really betrayed her. A few years ago before this guy and I started going out, he invited us to a party. Later on, past midnight, my best friend had to go home and I sent her in a cab which cost a fortune by herself while I stayed with the guy I liked until 6:30 in the morning. She was pissed off because she was arguing with the cab driver and spent a fortune and her mom thought I came with her. It was a stupid thing to do...stupid and selfish. She didn't like what I did and I apologized profusely and I am so lucky she didn't hold a grudge against me :)
that's what happens when you have a third wheel. You should have mad a prior agreement before going to the party.
I asked him if she could come so I wasn't alone...then I wanted to be alone with him....it was selfish.
so you basically ditched her. It happens...
bad secretvixen, bad!!
bad secretvixen, bad!!