Ugh, I'm pretty sure my dad wanted a son when I was born. From about age 3-7, my dad dressed me in the most boyish things imaginable. He claims they were unisex, but even if they were; by the time your kid's 3, I think it's safe to dress them in more gender specific clothing. There are so many old photos of me in slacks, loafers, plaid vests, earth-toned turtlenecks...The only time I was dressed "girlie" was for special occasions. I didn't really get to start picking out my own things until I was about 8.