Thread: What the hell did I do wrong...

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    Quote by Seston
    Quote by NickRules
    Why are all your posts hateful?
    All of my posts are not hateful and I sorry I come off to be that way. I just don't care for stupid bulshit.

    Quote by kylewhite
    Firt off, I never said I had no friends. Second of all, wambulance isent even a real word or remotley funny. Third of all Im not acting like a whinny little bitch, I just felt like getting something off my mind that ive been wanting to say for some time now but i dident feel like tellin any one I new cause I preffer to keep to myself. Fourth, My avatar is better then your avatar. Watch the film rejected and you will see what it is from. Not like your stupid piece of shit avatar.Lemme guesse, its blowing its head off because it can get over how much of a bastard you are? 5th, I do now whats important to me. I never said that or hinted twords that. I was just talkin about how most of my friends have turn their backs on me. And finaly Shut the fuck up, cause know one cares about what you say when you act like a fucking Dick head.
    Fisrt, I have to defend myself after a responce like that (not that I was too startled when you said that). Now, I'm not looking to start anything with you. But it sounded (or should i say you acted) like you had no friends. Second, "Wambulance" is a portmanteau word, therefore it is a word. And it is funny (to me at least). Third, if someone said this to you, wouldnt you think they are acting like a little whiny bitch. Forth, my avatar is awesome (and i could say something like "your avatar is bleeding b/c you raped it up the ass" but i wont.), and will rent that movie to see what is about. 5th I am sure you know whats important, but really, just sit down for 10-15 mins and just think about everything in the world that is important to you. See how many friends you think of, it will be less than you think. Listen kid, thats life, people will leave you, money will be lost, and feeling will be hurt. And what are going to do when you leave high school? Stay with your friends forever? And finaly, you shut the fuck up, people care about what I have to say, and about what you have to say. And I it's not I never felt that way, but as soon as I moved on, I felt better. And if you think I'm acting like "a fucking Dick head", wait till you get a real job (or go to NYC, whatever comes first lol)


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    The Giants suck.
    Tell that to the Giants and they will say, I know but we still get paid lol. And I don't think they suck.


    I think you try to be hateful on purpose. Yeah, "thats life", but you don't need to be an ass about it. Hes not a "whiny bitch" for going through this phase in his life, and im sure at times of your life you've felt the same way, and wish you had somebody to talk with. Maybe all he wanted was some kind words of encouragement or someone to know where hes coming from. If you dont like him "whining" then leave him alone and don't post here. People like you are such hard-asses, it pisses me off.
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    Quote by Seston
    Cry me a f_ck_ng river. How old are you? I HAVE NO FRIENDS? Someone call the wambulance. What your doing wrong is that you are acting like a whinny little b_tch (or that stupid avatar, thats kinda a hard decision). Grow up and find whats important to you.


    Don't take this that I'm teaming with the rest to flame you (not that I'm saying they're flaming you)

    I don't know if you bothered to see Kyle's age, but he's only 16 years old. I noticed you haven't posted yours. Do you have kids? I would hope if your 16 year old son was upset about something you wouldn't say "Someone call the wambulance "you are acting like a whinny little bitch". I also hope you wern't/aren't treated this way grow up. I think we may think alike in that we don't like drama queens and whiners. However his post did not come across as either. He's just going through a period in his life and wanted people's take on it. Do you think he could talk about this to one of his friends? I know at that age I was deeply depressed (well agressivly angry acually) and would have loved to have the internet to anonymously post something that was bothering me. If I did and got an answer like yours at that age it would have really bothered me.

    I remember I tried opening up to one of my "friends" about stuff that was bothering me and got a similar answer. Even worst he used the stuff I told him aginst me in other conversation. So this is something I can relate to. I think your should apologize for comming across the way you did.
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    Quote by bassman21
    Don't take this that I'm teaming with the rest to flame you (not that I'm saying they're flaming you)

    I don't know if you bothered to see Kyle's age, but he's only 16 years old. I noticed you haven't posted yours. Do you have kids? I would hope if your 16 year old son was upset about something you wouldn't say "Someone call the wambulance "you are acting like a whinny little bitch". I also hope you wern't/aren't treated this way grow up. I think we may think alike in that we don't like drama queens and whiners. However his post did not come across as either. He's just going through a period in his life and wanted people's take on it. Do you think he could talk about this to one of his friends? I know at that age I was deeply depressed (well agressivly angry acually) and would have loved to have the internet to anonymously post something that was bothering me. If I did and got an answer like yours at that age it would have really bothered me.

    I remember I tried opening up to one of my "friends" about stuff that was bothering me and got a similar answer. Even worst he used the stuff I told him aginst me in other conversation. So this is something I can relate to. I think your should apologize for comming across the way you did.



    I am currenly waiting for his responce.

    But, If you look about two or three post down from my original one, I did apologize. I don't have kids, but I would tell them to get over it. I was not raised this way, in fact I was raised the opposite way, where my family took stupid little things seriously. But I did have great teachers growing up who told nothing but the truth. And that slowly prepared me for the real world. I told him to find what was important to him, because I wanted to know if would care about his "friends" not being nice to him. I mean it's nice to have friend to do things or nothing with, but the point is, whether it's now or later, you have to find out what’s really important to you. And if that means having lots of "friends" who really don't give a shit about you, or having 3 friends who would die for you. You have to know what’s more important. The point is, no one is hurting him physically (that would be different matter and the appropriate people should be notified), and this slowly builds character. Sure it may take away your moat or picket fence to your self esteem, but you have to work to get it back. And you can only get it back by building character. So hopefully when the wambulance arrives, he won't have "little bitch syndrome" anymore.
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    Quote by Seston

    But, If you look about two or three post down from my original one, I did apologize. I don't have kids, but I would tell them to get over it. I was not raised this way, in fact I was raised the opposite way, where my family took stupid little things seriously. But I did have great teachers growing up who told nothing but the truth. And that slowly prepared me for the real world. I told him to find what was important to him, because I wanted to know if would care about his "friends" not being nice to him. I mean it's nice to have friend to do things or nothing with, but the point is, whether it's now or later, you have to find out what’s really important to you. And if that means having lots of "friends" who really don't give a shit about you, or having 3 friends who would die for you. You have to know what’s more important. The point is, no one is hurting him physically (that would be different matter and the appropriate people should be told), and this slowly builds character. Sure it may take away your moat or picket fence to your self esteem, but you have to work to get it back. And you can only get it back by building character. So hopefully when the wambulance arrives, he won't "little bitch syndrome" anymore.


    I'm gonna have to agree. There are 2 kinds of friends: fake friends (the ones you're having problems with), and real friends (like Seston said, the one that'll be there for you no matter what)
    Yeah it feels bad right now, but later you'll realize that you're better off without a bunch of fakers pretending to be your friend. Just stick with the ones that actually like you and that'll be around a lot longer than the others.
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    Hey man Seston does have a point. Life is life, it'll suck, get better, suck, get better, whatever. Just roll with it.

    Hopefully you'll turn it around, but if it does or doesn't, you're going to die eventually and it won't really matter. You can't take it with you.

    With my experience, I used to hang out with the popular crew until halfway through the first year in high school, when I realised, "Hey these kids fucking suck and I don't like them."

    So I ditched them and hung out with about 5 good friends, and some others just when I was bored. I hung out with those 'popular' kids for the first time in 3 years about a week ago and guess what? They all sell pot now. And one picks up garbage for a living.

    I'd consider myself depressed but just find something you like and occupy yourself. I play basketball and soccer, watch movies, write, and am going to get certified for skydiving. Find something that'll make you less miserable.

    And for Christ's sake when you get to college (if you are) make sure it's one you fit with. I made a bad choice and was miserable for 5 months until I left.

    That's about all I've got.
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    Sorry to hear about that buddy I am your friend still on here.
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    I would recommend getting involved in something new. I assume you are still in school, so why not join up with the drama club or something? They're all a bunch of fruity nerds, but they seemed to have a hell of a time. I would have definitely been in drama if I could do it over again.

    I think I'd be a set and props guy. Just make sure none of the guys try to kiss you. There are some fruitcakes.
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    Quote by Ilikethepixies
    I would recommend getting involved in something new. I assume you are still in school, so why not join up with the drama club or something? They're all a bunch of fruity nerds, but they seemed to have a hell of a time. I would have definitely been in drama if I could do it over again.

    I think I'd be a set and props guy. Just make sure none of the guys try to kiss you. There are some fruitcakes.



    Yes, cause homosexuals try and kiss any guy no matter what!
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    Shanks, please don't stereotype.

    Some will, some won't. I would think that you would have known that. Just watch out for the guy who likes to wear pink fairy wings to class.
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    hey dethklock, shanks was being sarcastic not stereotypical. Anyway, you should judge people by their personality not sexuality, now stop all the homo chat before the thread get chunched.
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    I was just trying to warn him to not get kissed. If he's down with that, that's cool.

    Thanks for the morality check. You've certainly straightened my ass out.
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    The drama clud is filled with chicks but thge teacher is a bitch so thats a no...
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    It doesn't matter how many friends you have, the important part is if they are any good. If you get into deep shit, will they drop everything to help? Will they jump head first into a group of guys looking to beat your ass at a bar late at night? If you are in jail in Mexico will any of them be there to bust you out?

    If you have even one friend like that, you are doing pretty good. If you are a friend like that, you are someone to be respected.
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    In kindergarten I used to hang out with a group of four girls. We used to go to each other's houses and birthday parties for years. But over the years we have gotten further and further apart over the years because of in group drama and different schools, etc. To this day I am friends still with only one of the members of that group, and she's my best friend. I have another friend from college who I hang out with sometimes also, but she has a husband and is older than I am. I used to be best friends with another girl in the 8th grade but she moved away and we do try to stay in touch.

    As others have been saying, I rather have 2 friends that I like a lot and can relate to than many friends who have emotional dramas all the time. Drama interrupts me when I have more important things to do.
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    You don't need alot friends, they just stab you in the back sooner or later.
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    It dosent really matter how many friends I have really. It just pisses me off how most of the people I have hung out with who I thought actually liked me as a friend end up being complete fuck heads and fuck me over when the shit hits the fan. Like this one time. Me and this kid got in a fight. A teacher saw us and started running towards us. Every one booked it. The teacher caught me because He recognized me and called me by name. Out of like 30 people that were there watching only one had the balls to actually not leave and stick by me and get in shit aswell.
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    You'll get over it. Part of growing up is learning how to deal with the fact that most people don't really give a shit if you live or die. The more you care, the less they will. Everything is backwards from how you think it should work and you are right, but that doesn't matter. You have to toughen up or you will be upset all the time. A year from now, none of this will matter because something eles will piss you off. Trust me.
    The whole point of life is trying to be in a good mood even when stuff sucks and you have no reason to be. Or you can be miserable and then die. It's not fair but that's your choices.You pick.
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    would you be my friend, misspiggy?

    I hear you enjoy many, many beers.
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    Quote by kylewhite
    It dosent really matter how many friends I have really. It just pisses me off how most of the people I have hung out with who I thought actually liked me as a friend end up being complete fuck heads and fuck me over when the shit hits the fan. Like this one time. Me and this kid got in a fight. A teacher saw us and started running towards us. Every one booked it. The teacher caught me because He recognized me and called me by name. Out of like 30 people that were there watching only one had the balls to actually not leave and stick by me and get in shit aswell.
    that only person was an idoit. why the hell would you stay behind to get in trouble? I dont the situations of the fight, but he did not seem to stop it (or at least try), so what does it matter?
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    Don't feel too bad, I can really only count my really good friends on one hand and one of them is my cousin. Even if you have a lot of friends as a kid, things will inevitability change when you graduate from high school.

    Everyone will move away, go to college, graduate from college, get married, and have kids of their own and the cycle will begin anew. I say screw having lots of friends who may or may not care about you and yes to much rather having a small tight knit group of friends that for certain care for you. Every good friend I have has seen me when my chips were down and has stuck by me in those trying times.

    It seems like a strange way to test the strength of a friendship but it seems to be law for me. Every time its happened, my friendship with that person has become stronger.

    In a nutshell, it doesn't matter how many friends you have as long as you know that they genuinely care for you. That is how good friendships last.
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