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6 months 8 hours ago
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This is going to sound weird, then again maybe not because I KNOW i'm not the only one.. i'm not Christian or religious, but I still celebrate Christmas. We've always focused on the giving, the decorating, the happyness of the season, the baking, the family, the exchanging of gifts, Santa, etc but never much about Jesus . Which I know, for Christians seems stupid because they will say he is the reason for the season, so maybe I should say we celebrate X-mas or whatever you'd say, it doesn't really matter.., I don't know, but anyway, because of this, we don't follow the whole put your tree up (the tree isn't a Christian thing anyway) a few days before Christmas and leave it up until sometime in January, which I know many religious folks do. We put it up a week or so after Thanksigiving and take it down before New Years because for us, we've had a good month of having it up and enjoying it, and after the 25th, it's really OVER for us. I enjoy this holiday more Thanksgiving and Halloween, so I like to listen to the music and watch the movies probably starting Thanksgiving afternoon, just to stretch it out a litte. For me it's depressing to stretch it out after the holiday is actually OVER, but starting it a few weeks early doesn't bother me , Now I should point out that growing up, Christmas day we never went anywhere. After opening presents and eating breakfast, it was just basicly cleaning up the mess, vegging out and playing with our toys. We didn't go off to visit anyone. The holiday was pretty much OVER. A few times when I was younger a few days after Christmas we'd go visit my grandmother in the nursing home and meet up with my uncle and aunts and nephews that lived a bit away and we'd exchange gifts, but that only happened just a few times.
For me Thanksgiving has always been boring. It was always just our immediate family, just the five of us. We only did a big thanksgiving ONE year. The rest of the years it was just us eating Turkey, stuffing, mashed potatos and cranberry sauce which honestly, is a meal anyone could make any old time. It was just boring. It would have been less so had we gotten to have bigger family get togethers more often I'm sure.
I think we have this discussion on here every year. Or rather argument over when the proper time is to put up and take down a tree LOL
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