Thread: Biggest Mistake Ever

  • sacredscred
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    • 11 years 9 months ago
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    		 If you could go back in time and change one thing that you think that you did wrong in your life what would it be?

    For example: My biggest mistake was making a "your mom" joke to my close friend whose mother committed suicide 2 days before that. :oops:
    • Soulbrutha34
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      • 11 years 9 months ago
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      		 prolly meeting tha raw seven. naw juss playin. i think it would have to be.... this is gonna sound funny but it would have to be not cussin people out when i was livin in puerto rico.
      • TMNT
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        • 11 years 9 months ago
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        		 I when change thing it will be in High School there is a beauitful girl I like and never ask her out I wish I ask her out that suck Put I a with a nice girl now.
        • System
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          		 I would go back and tell myself to stay away from Ho-ho's and all types of junkfood I use to consume that caused me to gain weight and was the begining of a 10 year ordeal with an eating disorder.

          Just save myself the trouble and eating healthier then couldve helped me out.
          • Kray
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            		 I would probably go back to my 8th Grade year and tell myself to keep practicing art and don't give up on it.

            I was convinced by individuals that I looked up to that I'd never make anything out of myself if I tried to go into animation. And now, 5 years later and after a year of college, I figured out that there's nothing else that I'd rather do, and believe me I looked HARD to find something else I could do for a living but everything else was either uninteresting or just not something I could do for the rest of my life. Now I'm playing catch up in the worst way to regain the skills I would've had by now if I had never given up on my ambitions in the first place... So much wasted time...

            But who knows, maybe that was supposed to help me KNOW what I wanted to do and not have second thoughts about what I want to do. But you never know, God works in mysterious ways. ^^
            • Badkitty
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              • 11 years 9 months ago
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              		 I wouldn't have spent so much time partying during high school and would have did things like go to movies and the mall and things normal teens do.
              I don't know about you, Miss Kitty, but I feel so much... yummier
              • System
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                		 Ouch i don't think I could beat that your mom thing.

                If I could go back I go back to 5th grade and sue my teacher for hitting me.
                • System
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                  		 If I could go back and change one thing, boy this is deep. The one thing I would change is when I was in 5th grade, and our prinicipal was telling us that there was going to be no 6th grade at our school next year and I never got any of my friends phone numbers. That one day was the darkest day I have ever lived in my life, because I regret not getting any of my friends phone numbers and the next time I might talk to them if they remember me is when I'm dead.
                  • System
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                    		 9th grade... my biggest mistakes happened then
                    • tha raw seven
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                      Quote by Soulbrutha34
                      prolly meeting tha raw seven. naw juss playin. i think it would have to be.... this is gonna sound funny but it would have to be not cussin people out when i was livin in puerto rico.



                      ...betta had...anyway my biggest mistake is pimpin this one gurl who was a teacher's pet or sumthin and was shy...she wanted to be my one and only .....i got slapped in front of.....the whole hallway :oops: so i'll see how having only one feels any takers?
                      • System
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                        Quote by Retroslime
                        9th grade... my biggest mistakes happened then


                        What happened in the 9th grade?
                        • System
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                          		 The one thing I truly regret is not telling my family about my ex-fiancé and her battle with leukemia when it happened, because they would have gotten me the plane ticket to Florida to spend the last few days with her. This would also have given me the chance to take a semester off, do some soul-searching, and live at home, three things I desperately needed after this event.
                          • Shot King
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                            • 11 years 9 months ago
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                            		 Go back to March 05, and tell myself that the time to register for Fall semester begens NOW. Unfortunately, w/ hectic classes and bothering folks, I ended up forgetting and waiting until July to do it and although I got what I wanted, it didn't exactly fit my time plan.
                            • System
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                              		 I've made quite a few mistakes in my lifetime, god help me.


                              I guess I'd go back to me in eight grade and tell me to start standing up for myself then, because I was bullied a lot and it set the precedent for being walked all over, which came out in my relationships and got me places where I didn't want to be. It took years for me to undo the hurt and pain and habits I had gotten into.

                              I've only just recently this summer come out of it. That's almost six years of damage that could have been avoided. Then again, I'd be a different person now.
                              • sacredscred
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                                		 raw: Raises hand* Meeeee!!!
                                • brneyedgrl80
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                                  		 The only regret I have that I would go back and change is to never start smoking at the age of 16.

                                  I hardly smoke now (only one day a week, a couple of cigarettes) but even that I is too much.
                                  "Jigawatts! Doc, What the Hell is a Jigawatt?"
                                  • Mental Blade
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                                    		 For me, it would be never meeting my neighbors. See I live in a place called elberton, GA that has many people of different types. Our house burned down due to a grease fire and we had lost insurance earlier that week. Then we moved into a trailer park(all we could afford). I had a neighbor that had extremely young kids. One being 11, one being 6, and a girl that was 5. I went over to get some stuff back and These kids were watching a porno movie and the little girl was trying to do...um...things. That is the most horrid site I have ever seen. A week later the father in the family came over and he was bleeding horrificly in the face. We called the cops and ambulance and they moved out. Thank God! Still though, when a little girl asks you to do stuff like that and your not a pedophile.....that stuff will haunt you. I really wish I was joking about this. However, I am telling the straight up truth.
                                    • System
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                                      		First of all this is a good post, kind of like free therapy (shoot me, I was a Psyche major in college) ! Hmm...I guess it would have to be dating/talking to this guy who was way out of my league. We weren't intimate, but still, he should've been OFF limits <smh> .
                                      • System
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                                        		 I can only think of maybe two things:

                                        When my parents moved me into my residence at University, I was really mean and bitchy to my mom that day. She ended up dying four months later. I wish I would have been nicer to her that day.

                                        On a lighter note...

                                        I should have slept with my prom date. LOL
                                        • System
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                                          Quote by Nik
                                          I guess I'd go back to me in eight grade and tell me to start standing up for myself then, because I was bullied a lot and it set the precedent for being walked all over, which came out in my relationships and got me places where I didn't want to be. It took years for me to undo the hurt and pain and habits I had gotten into.

                                          I've only just recently this summer come out of it. That's almost six years of damage that could have been avoided. Then again, I'd be a different person now.

                                          wow. thats scary. very similar story here. i too have made a lot of bad decisions i went throughh all the same crap throughout middle school and highschool and just this summer everything fell into place. ugh. if only i would've stood up to those bitches. guh.

                                          i wasted 4 years trying to get back to where i was: happy, confident, not worried about my weight, blah blah blah. the school system was what f@#$ed me and my parents over the most though. f@#$ing assholes. they blew everything out of proportion. it was because of them that i got sent to a clinic which opened me up to a world full of dangerous and terrible things && made me gain 20 lbs on meds which made my problems triple.

                                          &&&also relating to what brneyedgrl80 said: i've played sports my whole life and when i was 14(nearly15) i turned to cigarettes as a way to cope with all my current problems.. the death of my exboyfriend&etc.. probably one of the worst decisions i've ever made. i'd take it back in a second if i could.

                                          however the biggest mistake i think i've made was not saying goodbye to ex when he went away last summer, because i never saw him again after that.

                                          &Mental Blade i'm sorry to hear that.
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