• 8 years 4 months ago
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    skywalkersghost wrote:
    Hmm, what a good time for this subject to come up, I just got engaged on Friday! However the story is not very interesting. I was supposed to go on delivery (he does delivery's for an industrial supply company) with my bf on friday since I had the day off. When he came to pick me up he yelled from the porch he had something for me (which I thought would be a smoothie or a coffee) when I went out he was on one knee with a ring! I thought he was BS'ing me but he was for real! Friggin' brat asking me in the porch while I was wearing my damn pj's. :lol: I can't complain though, I should be happy I got one seeing as we've been going out 9 years :twisted:


    Congrats on the engagement!
    Ker click... Choom..
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      • 8 years 4 months ago
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      Reaper wrote:


      Gangsta bitch Hsmith! :lol:


      Man you guys have me pinned.
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        • 8 years 3 months ago
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        Why oh why did this topic have to pop up now? :cry:
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          • 8 years 3 months ago
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          Sunriser wrote:
          Why oh why did this topic have to pop up now? :cry:


          What happened?
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            • 8 years 3 months ago
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            Sunriser wrote:
            Why oh why did this topic have to pop up now? :cry:


            Uh-Oh! I sense your boyfriend getting future engagement nagging! :shock:
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              • 8 years 3 months ago
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              When I get proposed to I don't want to expect it. I don't want to be on some romantic date or on Valentines day. I would rather be at home when I'm proposed to.
              Dot: Don't look down. You might fall and hit your head and die and your brains would leak out alllllll over.

              Me:

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                • 8 years 3 months ago
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                Crap spackle... I was pondering this today, in a way.
                A friend of mine asked what'd be the best situation.
                Many of my friends are getting married during this year, and it's making me nauseous - but in a lovely way.
                Also it makes me loathe and pity myself, because only good proposal stories I have to tell are stories about my friends and not me.
                I'm never gonna "lure" anyone. I'll live and die alone, but, man... it's better than nothing.
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                  • 8 years 3 months ago
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                  Melpomene wrote:
                  Crap spackle... I was pondering this today, in a way.
                  A friend of mine asked what'd be the best situation.
                  Many of my friends are getting married during this year, and it's making me nauseous - but in a lovely way.
                  Also it makes me loathe and pity myself, because only good proposal stories I have to tell are stories about my friends and not me.
                  I'm never gonna "lure" anyone. I'll live and die alone, but, man... it's better than nothing.


                  Thats a terrible way to think. Its not true, you are smart, funny and cute. Plus all the guys went ga ga over your picture. Well some did go too far with their comments. But that is what makes love so desireable, that it is hard to find the one to fit us perfectly, since we are all so individual.
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                    • 8 years 3 months ago
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                    hsmith98 wrote:
                    Melpomene wrote:
                    Crap spackle... I was pondering this today, in a way.
                    A friend of mine asked what'd be the best situation.
                    Many of my friends are getting married during this year, and it's making me nauseous - but in a lovely way.
                    Also it makes me loathe and pity myself, because only good proposal stories I have to tell are stories about my friends and not me.
                    I'm never gonna "lure" anyone. I'll live and die alone, but, man... it's better than nothing.


                    Thats a terrible way to think. Its not true, you are smart, funny and cute. Plus all the guys went ga ga over your picture. Well some did go too far with their comments. But that is what makes love so desireable, that it is hard to find the one to fit us perfectly, since we are all so individual.


                    Translation- Hsmith just proposed to you! :D
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                      • 8 years 3 months ago
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                      hsmith98 wrote:
                      Thats a terrible way to think. Its not true, you are smart, funny and cute. Plus all the guys went ga ga over your picture. Well some did go too far with their comments. But that is what makes love so desireable, that it is hard to find the one to fit us perfectly, since we are all so individual.


                      Thank you. And I agree about the love part, basically.
                      One of my problems is just that since I don't like myself a lot, I know it's standing in the way of many things. Also, I grew up basically alone, so I'm afraid of how to jump into that other world, where you aren't alone.
                      Not that I don't want to share and commit myself to someone else - I do - it's just different and I have basically no experience in it.
                      Other thing that makes it difficult is that I'm horribly old-fashioned: I do want to get married some day, have kids and a huge family... but seems like the people I see aren't looking for that. Not with me.
                      I will not be with someone "just because". So it's a problem. So I stopped.
                      If I fall for someone, you can bet your butt that he's not available.
                      Must be some sort of subconscious self-protecting mechanism, but I suspect that it might be that my nose senses that someone is spoken for and then I develop crush on them - because I will not act on it because they're not available in my books. Self protection. :wink:

                      But do not get me wrong, I recognize the brighter side: I am not tied down to an unhappy relationship. I have yet to do anything irreversable which involves other people.
                      Well, this is a topic I could write a crappy book about, but I'll try not to. :lol:
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                        • 8 years 3 months ago
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                        Cyber Bishop wrote:


                        ROFLMAO!


                        Is it bad we got married like 4 days before our ceremony? :lol:
                        Mew
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                          • 8 years 3 months ago
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                          Melpomene wrote:
                          hsmith98 wrote:
                          Thats a terrible way to think. Its not true, you are smart, funny and cute. Plus all the guys went ga ga over your picture. Well some did go too far with their comments. But that is what makes love so desireable, that it is hard to find the one to fit us perfectly, since we are all so individual.


                          Thank you. And I agree about the love part, basically.
                          One of my problems is just that since I don't like myself a lot, I know it's standing in the way of many things. Also, I grew up basically alone, so I'm afraid of how to jump into that other world, where you aren't alone.


                          Aw! Your being way too hard on yourself, Melpo. You have a lot of great traits and are always fun to post with on here. :D
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                            • 8 years 3 months ago
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                            Reaper wrote:
                            Melpomene wrote:
                            hsmith98 wrote:
                            Thats a terrible way to think. Its not true, you are smart, funny and cute. Plus all the guys went ga ga over your picture. Well some did go too far with their comments. But that is what makes love so desireable, that it is hard to find the one to fit us perfectly, since we are all so individual.


                            Thank you. And I agree about the love part, basically.
                            One of my problems is just that since I don't like myself a lot, I know it's standing in the way of many things. Also, I grew up basically alone, so I'm afraid of how to jump into that other world, where you aren't alone.


                            Aw! Your being way too hard on yourself, Melpo. You have a lot of great traits and are always fun to post with on here. :D


                            Thanks. My shrink says the same. If it were that easy to stop doing...
                            Anyway... back to focus on the lovely marriage things.

                            My friend is getting married October, I'm so happy for them.
                            They've been together since 1994. I'm going to cry my eyes out in the church. Tears of happiness and hysteria.
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                              • 8 years 3 months ago
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                              takineko wrote:
                              Is it bad we got married like 4 days before our ceremony? :lol:


                              I didn't realize how many people actually do that these days until it was discussed at a wedding I went to.
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                                • 8 years 3 months ago
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                                Aww...all of your stories are so sweet!

                                My then-fiance proposed to me after I came home from a bad day at work. Nothing special, but it meant a lot to me ;)
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