Remembering Slumber Parties

A look back at "slumber parties" and what made them so much fun



Ah the slumber party... It reminds me of a simpler time in my life. I remember always looking forward to spending the night at friend's houses (or vice versa) because it usually meant junk food, video games and/or movies for as late as we wanted.





Dial-a-Pizza was a locally owned favorite of my friends and I. We would usually get pizza and go to the local corner store to stock up on soda and candy. Most of the time sleepovers were on a friday or saturday so it meant you could sleep in the next day without worrying about school. It was a special time for kids to be themselves without being closely monitored by adults. Below I will break down some of my favorite things about "spending the night" at a friends house.


Usually videogames were a huge part of the slumber party. It was the most focused time you could spend playing videogames. With parents fast asleep my friends and I would sometimes stay up all night playing NES games such as Mario 3, Contra, Guerilla War, and Adventure Island just to name a few. It was great not to be interrupted by your parents or younger siblings who were usually, and rightfully sanctioned off limits from these awesome nights of childhood rebellion. We could curse and really get our aggressions out at the games in privacy.


This was also a time to catch some great comedy on SNL or Letterman. I always loved the music segments and I remember when the Ramones performed "Pet Sematary" on Letterman to this day. My friends thought they were awesome back then, and I love the Ramones to this day.



Ah yes, the pinnacle of the sleepover experience. Rated R and Sci-fi b-movies! There was no chance a lot of my friends and I could have seen these movies in the light of day. Usually rented without a parents consent, or passed down from an older sibling this was the highlight of many a slumber party for me.


Luckily I had cool parents that let me see a lot of these movies, but it still felt pretty rebellious to sneak in viewing of "Nightmare on Elm Street" or "Terminator 2". It was also great fun to catch some of the lesser known b-movies on cable such as "Metalstorm: The Destruction of Jared Syn" and "Megaforce".


It wasn't always fun and games though. How many of you remember an angry parent waking up and telling you and your friends to "go to sleep!!!" or "quiet down"? This was a true test of a parent's patience as usually they took their sleep very seriously. I always liked staying at friends houses so it wouldn't have to be my parents that were woken up. It would usually take 2 or 3 warnings before we either hit the sack, or the parents just gave in to our late night hooping and hollering. Since we were fueled by too much pizza and soda, we couldn't help but get everything out of the night we could.

Now that we're all grown up we can stay up as late as we want, watch whatever movies we want, and play videogames all night. Although it's great to be able to do this now I still have a special memory of staying up too late with friends. I felt like we really had freedom to do what we wanted during those late night hours.

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    JPHBK Posted 2 years 21 days ago
    I'm not so sure as to whether it's cool to allow kids to watch anything they want. lol. But yeah, there seemed to be a different vibe about staying up late and doing that stuff as there is now. God bless.
    arikarinyukijima Posted 2 years 5 months ago
    At our slumber parties we would do stuff like Make-overs, movies, Groovy girls, barbies and staying up till 3 am. We would drink so much cola and eat so much pizza. =P good times......(^^)
    ERICT71 Posted 3 years 11 months ago
    I USETA RACK UP MY FRIENDS SISTER @ OUR SLEEP OVAS ;)
    jango52577 Posted 4 years 7 months ago
    I remember sleeping over at my cousin's house and him vice-versa at my house as a kid. Even though it was fun to have him over at my house, he was the one with a basement!! It was kind of funny. I'd have my mom drop me off at my aunt and uncle's house, we would have pizza or whatever else together for dinner and then he and I would dart down to the basement at like 6 or 7pm and not emerge until 11am or noon the next day. But what a great time we would have. He had a ton of fun stuff to do down there. We both had Sega Genesis's in the 90's so we used to play together and swap games all the time. It definitely beat renting games for sure. We also used to stay up and watch MTV, watch wrestling (if it was a Thursday night before a long weekend; We used to watch WWE Smackdown, but its on Friday night now), any number of great movies and listen to music. Even with all the great stuff he had to do down there, I still managed to stuff my backpack full of video games, movies, comics, random toys, and anything else I thought would make the night more fun. Now that we've both graduated, both have jobs, and are in college, the era of the sleepover has ended. I think the last true sleepover we had was like three years ago (When I was 20 and he was 17). I truly miss having sleepovers but every time he comes home from college I make an effort to hang out and catch up with him. We still hang out, watch movies, and play video games but its not the same as it was. Maybe over winter break if we're both not working the next day I should try to organize something with him for old times sake. I should just request a day off from work or something and make it work. That would be fun...
    Hanochan Posted 4 years 8 months ago
    Slumber parties probably were fun (back in the day), I wouldn't do good with slumber parties now a days. I'm a teen, but I get really tired. Unlike most teens I don't stay up late, I just get up really early.
    videogamesareawesome Posted 4 years 11 months ago
    Nice article! I haven't been to a sleepover in a couple of years, but I remember when I did, it was incredible. My parents were those types that were "afraid" of letting me go to friends houses, but after years of persuasion, they finally let me go my first time at age 10. Me and my friends would drink soda (later energy drinks), eat junk and play games. Unfortunately, we got caught once watching Commando and got in huge trouble, but it was still fun.
    EZR09 Posted 5 years 2 days ago
    My dad says slumber parties are for little kids.
    dalmatianlover Posted 5 years 1 month ago
    After reading this article, I have now learned that slumber parties aren't just for girls. Thanks for the article. Now, I want to throw one of these!
    lisvender Posted 5 years 3 months ago
    Wow, this article made me feel all warm and fuzzy. You really nailed the emotions and comforts that matter to a kid. Good job!
    oldnickfan Posted 5 years 3 months ago
    Sleepover+Ramones=PARTY!
    Eazyrider18 Posted 5 years 4 months ago
    Great article. The one thing my friends and I focused on was pranking whoever fell asleep first. This would usually consist of writing on someone's face with a marker, rubbing deoderant on someones feet, mixing together a bunch of household cleaners and pouring it on the person, taking the film out of a camera and using the flash to blind the victim, spraying shaving cream all over them, and I think the worst and the funniset was blowing your nose in a hankerchief and then throwing it onto the victims head. Man, kids can be cruel.
    noreag Posted 5 years 5 months ago
    HOW COOL.. I WAS ALWAYS THAT KID WHO WAS TOO SCARED TO SPEND THE NIGHT AWAY FROM HIS OWN HOME.JAJA.. BUT EVERYBODY STAYED AT OUR PLACE.. SO YA IT WAS SUPER COOL.. GOOD ARTICLE..
    zepphead5 Posted 5 years 7 months ago
    I'll never forget all the nights playing Contra and Super C co-op and getting crazy pissed when someone would lag behind a bit and get me killed. Sleepovers were definitely gaming heaven.
    retro_gamer_Zero Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    This has to be one of my favorite articles!
    Lucas2600b Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    "By rtwillia On 09/03/2007
    What about building pillow forts with the couch cushions? Definitely a must have for sleep-overs."

    Yes! I totally did this! I should've put that in there. Good times. I'm going to my friend's place tomorrow for a day of pizza, beer, and video games! woo hoo!
    HappyWifey Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    Wow!That article was so close to home!If anyone missed out on I feel bad for them.Yup pizza and soda and all the sweets you could find!I wasn't into horror like I am now,the movie that really scared the hell out of me at sleepovers(when I was 6-10) was the Hugga Bunch movie(yeah, I know it's a kids movie),lol!I had banned mirrors from my room after that one.

    Later on it was so hard to have sleep overs with other girls because we would rent girlie movies and do eachothers hair and makeup, and that's not my idea of fun unless I'm..I don't know..maybe actually going somewhere!I was alway the first to fall asleep at any sleepover.I didn't have a game system till I was 18(sad I know) but when I got older my best guy friend and I would stay up all night playing games or watching movies, he of course slept on the couch which eventually the cushions took his shape as the years went by, lol.
    rtwillia Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    What about building pillow forts with the couch cushions? Definitely a must have for sleep-overs.
    Gnomie G Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    wow, not much has changed. im 16 and sleep overs are exactly the same (with the exception of myspace and youtube, lol).
    mostofthetime Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    Yeah Sleep Overs Rocked!!:) Nintendo, Coca-Cola & Pizza!!:) I too remember staying up all night trying to beat a game:) Either rented, owned or owned by the friend(s) who would sleep over:)

    perceptor Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    Great article; great times. I love the irony of the "sleep over" being that you never actually got much sleep!! LOL
    Falcor Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    Aww, good times. That takes me back. :-D
    shiroihikari Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    I don't have very many good memories of sleepovers. When I was a teenager I used to stay with a friend of mine on the weekends, but she wasn't into video games or anything so we usually just played around on the internet all night, which was totally new to us at the time.

    My mom would hardly ever let me go to anyone's house when I was a kid. The few sleepovers I went to were not really that much fun. I could never sleep and the kids I stayed with didn't want to do the same things I did.
    tmnt93 Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    2 things : 1) sleepovers r the shit and 2) THE RAMONES R FUCKIN AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!
    Hofner62 Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    HELL YEA! The sleep-overs rocked!! For me, it was about an equal exchange whether I left or had a friend come here. There were pros and cons to both. Pizza, junk food, sodas, video games, and movies, here too. When I was younger, Nintendo was THE thing to have so we would stay up all night playing games determined to beat them.
    LivinLegend85 Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    10 outta 10
    LivinLegend85 Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    lol i like this post, i also had slumber parties...now in days, everyone is caught up with weird things...kids dont even act like kids no more...im 21 by the way LOL
    smackthatweirdo Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    Cool article. All we ever did was play video games though.
    ChowTimer Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    I'm glad some people agree with me that you are never too old to have a sleepover.
    nikki89 Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    I haven't had a sleep over in 6 years(haven't had outside-of-school friends in 6 years, either), but from 4th grade through 6th it seemed that I had or went to a sleep over every weekend. They usually consisted of me and 1 or 2 of my best friends, Sega or Super Nintendo, movies from Movie Gallery, and music from our latest boy band of choice. Good times...
    Oldschoolgamer83 Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    I used to love sleepovers. They started in second grade for me. Early in the week 5 or 6 of us would plan what day (Friday or Saturday) we'd get together who's house and who'd bring what. Usually whoever was hosting the sleepover had the necessary game systems- Genesis and Super Nintendo- so it was just a matter of finding the right games to rent or have somebody bring over.

    The food was easy, soda and pizza was all you needed for nights like this, though sometimes in the summer we'd snack on leftovers from neighborhood bbqs. Good times.
    stormteaser19 Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    Ahhh those times where GREAT! I remember playing Nes and Snes all night till we passed out... or watching movies until one of us just couldn't watch movies no more.... LOVED IT! I now stay up till 4 am and it dosnt even come close to being the same as when i was a child.
    ducktalesfan1977 Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    I never had a slumber party as a kid but I did when I was in college. We got drunk, ordered pizza, played SNES and NES, watched 80s cartoons and movies and it goes on and on.
    verno Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    i love sleepovers junk food videogames horror movies trampiloning at about 1 in the morning good time good times
    Caps 2.0 Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    My friend actually slept over this week. Our big sleep-over activity was going to my local drive-in for a double feature of "Rush Hour 3" and "Hairspray". It was tremendously enjoyable, and the first time I had done a sleep-over in at least half-a-decade.
    RetroGAL Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    Ah Sleepovers Man just awesome *Cries* oh everything was great about them TV Movies yummy snacks N64 and other videos games telling scary stories and other good things.
    agentkev Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    awesome..pure awesome I miss those days myself..
    Lucas2600b Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    I'm married now and every night is like a slumber party actually. My wife and I have been playing a ton of Mario Party 8 on the Wii lately, and even busted out some "Anticipation" on the NES into the early morning the other week. I like to get the most out of every day, and treat every night as a slumber party in a sense.
    Spottedfeather - I felt your pain too during certain times in my childhood. I was a nerd and luckily had a group of nerdy friends that had the same interests. It's not too late to have a sleepover with new friends.
    Spottedfeather Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    Not having any friends at all put a real damper on the invited activities. I never got invited to anything. But sleepovers always looked really cool on tv.
    IloveRetroLives Posted 5 years 8 months ago
    I always had my friend come over around my birthday for the night and the next day we either went bowling or to the puttputt golf course (which sadly closed down).
    Lucas2600b Posted 5 years 9 months ago
    Don't worry, I still have fun and stay the night at a friend's place every now and then. Being in my mid 20s now though I mainly made the article as a look back at what made sleepovers awesome for me during the late 80s / early 90s. I am pretty busy with music/work now but I still watch a lot of movies and play classic games. I went to an all night LAN Party at my friend Joe's last year and I think we went through about 4 or 5 pizzas that night :)
    dalmatianlover Posted 5 years 9 months ago
    Dude, we can still have all that fun!
    BATTLESTAR100 Posted 5 years 9 months ago
    yah awsome article good thing im still young enough to go to sleep overs my friends and i are gonna try to rent die hard!
    Knites Posted 5 years 9 months ago
    You know, the sleepover is really something we shouldn't give up as we age. I mean, what wrong with a few buddies from work coming over, bringing their sleeping bags, and crashing at your place. Get out the Nintendo or PS2 and play the night away over ten boxes of pepperoni pizza until everyone passes out from exhaustion. Yeah! Sure, the wife might get upset, but what ya gonna do. ;-)
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